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Started by Steve, June 04, 2017, 05:30:07 AM

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Jbird22

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That's sound advice there Bowguy. Can't beat words of wisdom coming from a guy who's been there.

Steve, People (whether Christians, self-proclaimed Christians, or Non-Christians) WILL let you down but God himself NEVER will. When people do things like you described your wife has done, they were outside of God's will when doing so. It's that very sinful nature that makes us need Him. I want you to know that God loves you and that you likely have several men of faith from this site who are praying for you to get through this. All of us are far from perfect but we all reach out to the One who is!

Let me know if you have any current inventory to move. I'd love to help if I can!

Hooksfan

Very much hate to hear anyone going through this mess. You have my most sincere thoughts and well wishes,  and yes...prayers.
I have been where you are...right up to the "Christian" ex wife, lying, cheating, manipulating, vindictive,  and malicious. I took my Dad's and Pastors advice (who both knew the truth) and just let her talk and take the so called high road.  BOY, WHAT A MISTAKE! !
She embarked upon a public misinformation campaign that would have put a Clinton campaign manager to shame and the good church folks set aside any gift of discernment and sucked it up like a sponge, and the Pastor didn't have spine enough to set the record straight. It all but destroyed my faith in people.
But, I realized from the beginning to separate religion and these people's actions from my faith in God. However; it has takene 10 years to be able to find a Church .
I cannot explain what the deal is with the women these days. I cannot tell you how many good men I have seen in your situation.
It will get worse before it gets better. DO NOT TRY TO BE
NICE or take the high road throughout the divorce proceedings. You will never receive any mercy or compassion from a woman in this situation. You are doing right by filing first.
Best of luck to you.

silvestris

Shake it off and go to UTube and listen to Roy Clark sing "Thank God And Greyhound She's Gone".  It's very therapeutic.  Good luck with the coping.
"[T]he changing environment will someday be totally and irrevocably unsuitable for the wild turkey.  Unless mankind precedes the birds in extinction, we probably will not be hunting turkeys for too much longer."  Ken Morgan, "Turkey Hunting, A One Man Game

daddyduke

The enemy comes to kill steal and destroy. I used to think once I dealt with my issues and started walking closer with God, all would be fine. Boy was I wrong! The enemy will use everyone and everything you care about to destroy you. I know you probably don't like hearing this right now but your wife is as much of a victim as you are. She is blind to how the enemy is using her. I will be praying for both of you. Peace beyond understanding and eyes to be opened!
Colossians 3:12 Since God chose you to be the holy people he loves, you must clothe yourselves with tenderhearted mercy, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience.